What you did was wrong...
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Thursday, September 15, 2016 | |
If someone were to ask you, “What’s a life lesson you will remember to the day you die?” what would that be for you? I asked that question of singer and songwriter Michael Card. His response is a story you need to hear. Allow me to quote him from the book, If I Could Do It All Over Again. When I was a kid, I often sat in church next to an old man named Basil Edwards. I remember that when I was seven years old, I got into trouble and was crying. Basil got on his knees, face-to-face with me. He said, “Mike, I want you to know you’re wrong. What you did was wrong. But I want you to know I’m on your side, right or wrong. In fact, especially when you’re wrong, I want to be on your side.” I think what I will take to my grave is that was the first time I ever really understood the gospel. Because while we were sinners, Jesus said, “I’m going be on your side.” Before there is any hope or indication we will repent and come to Him, Jesus still stoops and, essentially, gets face-to-face with us and says, “You’re wrong, but I’m going be on your side.” Many years later I had a son who had been arrested a couple of times for smoking pot. Every time I’d go to court with him, I would say, “What you did was wrong, but I want you to know I’m here because I’m on your side. Right or wrong, I choose to be on your side. You need to know that.” Later, after he turned his life around, my son called me and said, “That was the gospel, Dad, wasn’t it?” I said, “Yep. Absolutely.” I’d love to know what your biggest life lesson is. Why not share it when you email me at jon@jongauger.com. Maybe we'll share your story—and the stories of other blog readers—in a future Thursday Thought. Thanks! |
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What I Would Do More Of
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Thursday, September 08, 2016 | |
If you could do it all over again, how would you live your life differently? I sat down with 28 Christian leaders and asked them. One of my specific questions was what would you do more of, if you do it all over again. Michael Card told me... Clearly I would have put more time in with my family. I think I was on the road doing 150 concerts a year for more than 30 years. My wife homeschooled and our kids got plenty of attention. I would be home for two or three weeks at a time. Yet later, my oldest son, Will, took me aside in a very non-condemning, very sweet way and said, “I just need to tell you this. It was hard for you to be gone so much.” Josh McDowell shared... I’ve got four children who would die for me—an incredibly loving intimate close family. We’re together all the time. But I have made over 19,000 airplane flights and stayed in 2,300 hotel rooms. Now I just wish I could have been with my family more. Erwin Lutzer took me into his office and said... If I could do it all over again, I would spend an awful lot more time investing in the lives of my children. Of course we prayed with them and we taught them and so forth. But you know, in retrospect, I really didn’t enter into their world as I could have. One day my second daughter, Lynn, wrote me a letter when she was about to go off to college. She said, “Dad, I cannot compete with your studies of Martin Luther and theology.” Talk about an ice bucket experience! Sure I was studying Martin Luther and I was studying theology. But for my child to think that she couldn’t compete with that? That so set me back! I realized that I was on the wrong track. I began to change my priorities. But if I could do it over again: more investment in the lives of my children. Ephesians 5:15: “Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise, but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.”
You can discover for yourself what Christian leaders regret—and find freedom from your own regrets—in Jon's new book, If I Could Do It All Over Again. Facebook.com/authorjongauger |
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If I Could Do It All Over Again
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Thursday, September 01, 2016 | |
He was half a second away from being pounded into the grass. In desperation, our Junior High quarterback flung the ball to the only open receiver on the field—me. Clutching the laced leather, I raced toward the end zone, virtually unopposed. It was only as I crashed across the goal line that I finally understood all the yelling. I had run into the wrong end zone—ours! To this day, I wish I could do that over. Here's another do-over. It was half time at our high school football game. I was in the marching band. All 96 of us were high stepping toward the end zone when at a musical cue, we were supposed to flip around crisply and march the other direction. 92 of us did. But me—and three others—continued ignorantly toward the wrong end zone (all of this captured on film). How I cringed later to see myself and my group on the big screen. We looked like ants, skittering toward the wrong end zone! (Do you see a pattern here?). Trust me. I have plenty of do-overs I’d love to completely erase. I’m guessing you do, too. For some of us, the do-overs are “big ticket” items: a divorce, a fit of violence, a drunken spree, flunking out of college, serving time in jail or at detox. Maybe your list is darker yet. We’ve all got our issues. But what about the Christian leaders whose sermons we hear, whose books we read and whose music we sing? Do they have regrets? I was curious. So I sat down with 28 well known evangelical leaders. People like Joni Tada, Tim Keller, Michael W. Smith, Anne Graham Lotz. I asked them straight out about their regrets, about how they would live life differently if they could do it all over again. Know what I discovered? They're just like you and me. There are so many great stories these leaders shared, I compiled them in a book. But the one truth you need more than any other comes from the ultimate Book, were we are reminded in Romans 3:10, “There is no one righteous, not one.”
NOTE: You can discover for yourself what Christian leaders regret—and find freedom from your own regrets—in Jon's new book, If I Could Do It All Over Again. Facebook.com/authorjongauger |
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Maranatha!
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Thursday, August 25, 2016 | |
As we sat under the porch of the Blue Gate restaurant, there was nothing blue at all about the evening sky. It was as ink splotched and torn as our hearts were light and joyful. Why not? Diana and I had just spent a day relaxing in Amish country—Shipshewana, Indiana. We sampled 20 kinds of cheeses, shopped at 20 different stores (well...maybe not quite that many), played with unusual musical instruments, devoured a glazed cinnamon pretzel, and watched an Amish craftsman make a new belt for me. We packed a lot in—and all of it was grand. Please don't tell anyone we bought a few “hand fried pies” to take back with us. We had just finished an Amish dinner of roast beef and mashed potatoes, and had plopped down into polymer brown rocking chairs on the covered porch of the Blue Gate to watch the rain. The whole experience was a study in contrasts: We had come from the urban crush of Chicago. But Shipshewana was nothing except rural peace and quiet. We had left a place of nasty traffic and snagging congestion. But Shipshewana is a landscape untouched by overcrowding. Where we live, gas stations are crammed and noisy. At the Marathon station across from the restaurant, we marveled at two horse-drawn buggies tied to a hitch, while others clip-clopped up and down the street, buggies in tow. . We had left a culture that celebrates paganism at every possible turn. But at Shipshewana, wonderful old hymns were played over sound systems: What a Friend We Have in Jesus, There is a Fountain Filled with Blood, and Wash Me and I Will Be Whiter than Snow. Sitting on those comfortable rockers, sniffing the rain and listening to the hymns playing, it was tough not to let your mind play tricks on you. With very little difficulty, you could imagine a slight spelling change in the name of the gas station. “Marathon” becomes “Maranatha.” Which means, “Come, Lord Jesus!” Amen! Come quickly, Lord! |
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Boombox Living in a Bluetooth World
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Thursday, August 18, 2016 | |
Truthfully, I still have a boombox in my garage. The radio still has a great sound—but I must confess the biggest reason I keep it is for sentimental value. That's probably okay when it comes to a boombox. But that's NOT okay when it comes to the way we think and do ministry. Or personal evangelism. I wonder. Are we guilty of boombox living in a Bluetooth world? Do we speak and preach and share Christ using the same moldy old methods? Of course the gospel message cannot and must not change. The Bible is still the Bible. But are we just offering what we've always done in the ways that we've always done it? This is not your father's America. If this very pagan nation will be reached, it will take much more than boombox living in a Bluetooth world. |
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